This girl from spain is coming to visit me, what do I talk about with her???
SO I'M GOING BABY-SITTING [WITH MY OLDER SISTER] ON SUNDAY AND THE LITTLE GIRL'S MOM IS GOING OUT WITH HER FRIENDS FROM SPAIN AND HER FRIENDS HAVE A 13-YEAR OLD [MY AGE] AND THEY WANT US TO TALK AND HANG OUT.....WHAT COULD I TALK ABOUT WITH HER....I DONT EVEN KNOW HER NAME.....DO U THINK IT WOULD BE OK TO BRING MY LAPTOP AND MY iPOD AND STUFF WITHOUT HER THINKING I'M SPOILED OR SOMETHING BAD??????I'M EXCITED BUT REALLY NERVOUS ABOUT THIS.....I HAVE NEVER TALKED TO SOMEONE FROM SPAIN IN PERSON [MAYB CHAT]....BUT I DO SPEAK SPANISH........SHE DOESNT SPEAK ENGLISH.....I REALLY WANT TO BE FRIEND WITH HER PS-WE'RE BOTH GIRS IF U CANT TELL BY NOW DOES ANY ONE THINK SHE MIGHT BRNG STUFF SHE LIKES TOO BC I DONT WANT TO BE SELFISH ABOUT BRINGING ONLY MY STUFF.....
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Answer 1 :
I understand the rain in spain falls mainly on the plain.
Answer 2 :
Yes, take your laptop n ipod n stuff - Spain is not a third world country. Talk about fashion, soccer, anything at all - talk about movies and who you like.. favorite music.. that sort of stuff. You'll probably have more in common than you think!
Answer 3 :
Well juz talk to her about your life... how its treating you and about your friends and stuff like dat... plan to go somewhea to hang out and meet some otha new ppl.... Some ppl gets nervous about meeting otha ppl sooo talk to her thea a lot of stuff to talk about in dis world gurl!
Answer 4 :
first say hello to her and ask her name and ask which school do you study whats your favourite subject and which songs do you like well you can bring the ipod and laptop to show her if you like...i think shell be excited to see it...Good Luck!!
Answer 5 :
take all your stuff, you will have a great time. If nothing else use the translator on the computer
Answer 6 :
Dont sweat it, theres nothing more natural than meeting people from different cultures, youll do ok. One thing that could be important is to warn her of the bad sides of town, places to avoid, and personal safety stuff that they may not need to know about in Spain?.....Ask her for some more Spanish lessons and phrases etc, ask about Spanish guys, go to the mall, go out for ice creams and scope the boys? go swimming, or to the beach, go sightseeing, playstation games?? hell the world is your oyster.
Answer 7 :
ok. first of all dont be nervous. ur both 13 year old girls and the only real difference between you is your culture. You should talk with her abuot what you would talk about with any other 13 year old but find out a little about her culture first just so you can get to know her. You can talk about music or clothes or something to break the ice and ull realize shes no different from you. you can bring your laptop and ipod only if your going to listen to music with her or do something together on the laptop. Dont make her feel out of place. Accept her as a friend not as an outsider. Hope everything works out!! _-*Sarah*-_
Answer 8 :
Just be normal, how you are in everyday. What do you usually do when you aren't in school? Take her with you when you do your normal things. She isn't from mars, its not like you don't speak her language, but she has a lot to offer you, also, don't close your mind to that thought...... You could bring your laptop and ipod with you, but share this with her, it will help you close the gap. No doubt she has these at home, so seeing something familiar or able to check her email will be awesome for her to do, and share with you her friends back home.. I hope the time goes by smoothly, but panicking is not the best thing. Being her friend while she is here is the best thing......after all, did she want to come here? Was she forced to come here or was it mother who MADE her come here and have to hang out with some American kids her age....? Think in all perspectives, I know you will have a good time....plus I am hoping you make a good friend.
Answer 9 :
I think she would be more worried about you ignoring her if you bring the 'pod and 'top. However, if you offer her the use of both of them as well, it should work out fine. I also think she is probably far more nervous than you, since she is much farther out of her comfort zone than you are. Bring some magazines too, something to flip through and converse about. Perhaps a board game, or a favorite movie You never know what you'll have in common, and she might be open to learning about some of your favorite things! Have fun, though, and don't stress out too much about it. I think you'll both find you have a pretty good evening!
Answer 10 :
ask her about things she likes before she comes and search the things on the internet so you could have an idea of what shes talking about
Answer 11 :
make up, hair, and cloths...girls can do that without talking,,,just LOL painting your toenails and finger nails also
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